2009年5月19日星期二
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What is a love? Everybody certainly can say the love is likes others! But I am not thought like this that, I thought the love is happy. The love, is great. The love, is selfish. The love, is painful The sentimental true meaning lies in not strives for.
Loves a person certainly is not must obtain the assorted benefit from opposite party body, you love a person, is willing to be good to him, because you think very joyfully. This is can criticize this for assorted us is a heartless time, because each person while pays the sentiment, likes is doing business to be same.
When we love a person, likes first determining he loves me, if he does not love me, I do not love him; But opposite party also can have so the idea, therefore two people have spatially to wait the happy day even to slide in vain. The sentiment is one kind pays, but is not one kind obtains, also should not haggle over opposite party can give you how many, because you originally do not have a thing in the world. You also may be the love sacrifice, but this sacrifice certainly if own are willing, but is not the grievance, very reluctantly, then requests opposite party to repay you. Some people said that, "The great love should endure the test", but sentiment since this 幺 is valuable, should cautiously protect only then to, but is not 有事没事 brings tests.
Likes an egg to take in the hand, should carefully protect, but is not loses it to the place on, how only then is astonished it to be able broken to fall! Do not test the love, but do not have to be afraid the test, does not need to be afraid the test to be able to be defeated. We certainly all hoped the love can discuss ordinary, is smooth, all does not have any question for a lifetime. But if the love must receive some twists and turns, some attack, some injures, we also can boldly thrust forward to accept. If we really have lost it, that only is in the surface or the form loses it, actually can forever have it in the life. (In in a love process, does not allow to deny, it let us learn many things, no matter loved result was gathers is divides) In this time, on the one hand we do not overestimate the love, because the love cannot let us overcome all, obtains all, not completely is happy; On the other hand, also leaves the careless and indiscreet love, because "the love" is a talent which each person all has, surely do not have not to give up pays.
When when you meet some to suit you, the person which falls in love with you, "elects you to like, liking you electing"! Diligently maintains yours sentiment. How but has to weigh the love whether may continue? Perhaps has a standard: You happy are bigger than in the love painstakingly, the strength which it enable which you to progress the strength is bigger than degenerates. It causes the satisfied serious offense which you obtains you to want. The life if did not have the fame and fortune, the riches and honor, the power and influence, still possible happiness. If the life love, the happy opportunity has not been miniscule.
Brave greets the oneself obtained love, enjoys the love with every effort happiness, avoids it being able to take to our pain, the injury only then is good. The multipurpose open-minded angle looked.